
Ed has jumped in during the past few days to join me in the house planning. Not that he wasn't doing some before, he just hasn't been doing it as constantly and blatantly as I have been. He's spent some time with my Mom's house plans to see what goes into plans, to make it easier for him to draw them up once we're done desgining.
I see the kitchen as a real focal point for the house, both because it's what you'll see to one side right as you come in, but also because we'll spend a lot of time there. Plus it costs a lot more to improve it once the house is built. For a bedroom, well, you need spots for furniture, b

ut other than flooring and paint, and maybe light fixtures, you embellish with your furniture and other things. A kitchen goes in at the start (bathrooms are that way, too, but we haven't gotten to bath design yet).
I've formed my (current) top choice for a kitchen look. It involves light yellow cabinets (which I never thought I would like—I'm oddly drawn to them), a white apron front farmhouse sink with (preferably) one bowl and built-in drain boards, white
subway tile backsplash throughout (rectangular white tiles), some wood countertop (from
IKEA), some black countertop (like
Richlite or
Fireslate). Lots of windows. A shelf just in front of said windows for plants and whatnot. I'm not sure about the floor yet, but I think rubber would be great for a kitchen. There are a lot of sources for rubber floors, including some recycled varieties. We'll look into it more as time goes on. Interspersed in this post are a couple of photos that show off features I'd like to include. Pardon the quality, I took photos of my television from a show that had a kitchen I liked.
Ed isn't huge on the yellow. He would rather wood cabinets. He wants a hearthy look, but agrees that brick in the kitchen isn't a great idea. It's too porous. I'm hoping he can find photos of what he's going for, because so far he isn't sold on my idea. If he finds any, I can post them here. I hope we can find something we both like, because the kitchen is too important for either of us to settle. There are other looks for kitchens that I like (brown cabinets with a green backsplash, for example), but the photos of kitchens that I'm really drawn to and that evoke feelings in me that I'd want to recreate in my own kitchen are more light in color. No white cabinets, though. We have that now and they look dirty all the time. And I've lived most of my life in places with white walls, white ceilings, blah blah. I want color, even if it's a subtle color.
Most likely we'll get cabinets at
IKEA, since they are quite affordable, and apparently durable. They supposedly got rated in third place in a Consumer Reports study, behind two high end cabinet companies that charge 3 times and 5 times as much for the tested cabinets. Go IKEA! I wish they had a larger selection, but I like the
STAT Light Yellow, or perhaps the
DUVBO gray-white. If we were to go wood, my first choice would be
ADEL medium brown and my second choice would be
ADEL birch (though I really want colored cabinets and I'm not big on light colored wood). IKEA has a very large
kitchen planning department, and a wide variety of cabinet sizes, shapes, functions, etc. I'm looking forward to laying out the kitchen and figuring out what will go where. IKEA also sells
laminate floors, but I'm sick of the faux wood look. They also sell appliances, range hoods, sinks, faucets, etc. We'll have to look at all those individually.